A sceptic’s journey towards enlightenment. 5: Grasp the sparrow by the tail
Do it right and you won't fail!
As the sparrow tries to fly from your palm, you react ever so slightly by lowering your hand. Consequently, the poor creature cannot use the force of its legs to take off. Thus we learn to feel the force of our enemy and react to it with softness. Or so I was told early on in my tai chi training.
A number of years later I mentioned the story to a Chinese teacher who came to stay with me and run some classes. He burst into laughter and asked why it was that Westerners always had to bring pseudo-philosophy into everything from the East. He said, “the characters in Chinese that ‘spell’ catching the sparrow’s tale can equally mean hurting someone very badly!”
When learning tai chi was at its most popular between about 1995 and 2010 (this is only my impression and I could be totally wrong) classes started springing up all over the place and teachers were advertising them as everything from “swimming on dry land” to a “moving meditation”. Wrong. Tai chi is a martial art and yes it is “soft” differentiating it from, say, karate where one learns powerful (brick-breaking) moves. Like aikido, we learn how to dissipate the force of our opponent.